Engagement Traditions: A Modern Twist for Same-Sex Couples

Exchanging engagement rings is an age-old tradition and has come to symbolize love and commitment. However, our symbols move forward as society does, developing different (and beautiful!) ways to express our relationships. Engagement watches have been, in fact, quite common in recent years for both same-sex and opposite-sex couples. Modern touches on tradition recognize not just personal style and preference, but also as a reflection on the unique dynamic that exists within each relationship. Every couple is deserving of a beautiful way to express their relationship!

Image courtesy of With Clarity. 

The Evolution of Engagement Traditions

Engagement rings offer a long history from ancient Egypt and Rome as the symbols of a formal arrangement to marry someone. They traditionally consisted of diamonds which grew popular in the late 19th century due to marketing campaigns. But as the understanding of love and  relationship forms in our minds, so as the symbol of the bond does-and it does not always need to be represented through a ring. In recent years, even watches have been used to represent this deep bond!

Why Engagement Watches?

This lovely couple flaunts their fashionable engagement watches! Image courtesy of SwissWatchExpo. 

Watches appear to be becoming more and more popular for same-sex couples to become engaged with— transcending the traditional gender norms associated with engagement jewelry. That in itself is what could make timepieces the ultimate symbol for same-sex couples who cherish equality and look for unconventional ways of expression in sealing their commitment. They come in designs ranging from classic/subtle to bold/intricate, giving any couple the chance to choose pieces that reflect their unique style and shared taste. It's in this customization that exchanging watches obtains a very personal and meaningful touch!

While the classic ring simply shows the world that two people are bound together forever, a watch is functional and fashionable. It's precisely this mixture of functionality and meaning that has couples looking for a unique expression of their love flocking to watches. What's more, varieties in watch designs and style give couples the choice to opt for pieces that will satisfy both personalities, symbolizing shared journey experiences, so it’s very intimate and memorable!

Classy Alternative

For many, a watch is a fashionable timepiece rather than just a time-telling device. These can also be a personal and unique style different from a ring. Watches are designed from traditional to the most modern designs that couples can wear and still feel that they are wearing a piece that speaks for them.

Practicality

Watches, being practical and versatile, are not going to be wrong with almost any activity or profession, unlike rings that could be inappropriate for this or that. This part of the practicality causes it to be the most widely chosen option among everyone leading an active or hands-on life.

The Symbolism of Time

A watch might be symbolized as to the period of time a couple has been together and matching watches as to how much time they will still have to be with one another. From that, it's a mere recollection of a journey and an important jewelry piece.

Engagement Rings in Same-Sex Couples

Breaking Stereotypes

Personalization: Engagement rings do not need to be gender specific, so they do not limit you by enabling you to feel that you must follow stereotypical rules about who should give or receive a ring. An engagement ring can be given to one person, everyone, or whomever will best fit this partnership.

Many same-sex couples are looking for a way to express their own sense of uniqueness when it comes to their engagement rings for their special day.  They tend to go to great lengths—maybe not very conservative choices, custom designs, or matching sets that mirror personal style and shared values.

Historically, some same-sex partners wore commitment rings on their middle finger or on the right hand's ring finger, which symbolized protest against inequality in marriage. Today, the traditional placement is mostly adopted on the left ring finger.

A stunning same sex engagement ring set by KRIKAWA!

Engagement Watches for Same-Sex Couples

A Modern Statement

Now, engagement watches are the new raging trend as same-sex couples seek to make a statement that is modern and sophisticated. Watches give them an opportunity to celebrate their commitment with something that stands out and feels fresh.

Matching Sets

This couple rocks their matching engagement watches! Image courtesy of Swiss Watch Expo. 

Just like rings, engagement watches can be paired. Couples can choose coordinating designs, which subtly represent them as one, yet still as individuals, a notion that is appropriately fitting. This is a splendid idea, particularly for individuals that fancy the body and function of a nice timekeeper.

Choosing watches instead of the customary rings is another way in which same-sex couples celebrate their relationship definitively. It is entrusting what will identify with their stories and celebrating their love by doing what is against the routine, and therefore exhibiting that the union is correspondingly the right way.

Combining the use of Rings and Watches

Double the Symbolism

Some couples may prefer those kinds of combinations with an engagement ring and a watch. This way, they will still have the traditional meaning that goes with the ring and also will have the modern flare and functionality of the watch. It's a really gorgeous method to pay reverence to the past and then advance to the future.

Special Occasions

An engagement ring and a watch may be part of a person's life either on a daily basis or during important events. The Ideal engagement ring is a representation of retaining the commitment, while the watch is a reminder of keeping on track to mark that commitment.

Shopping for the Best Engagement Ring or Watch

Personal Style

Think about this while making a choice: whether it be concerning an engagement ring or a watch, do you go for a classical style or do you go totally modern and cutting edge? Consider what's going to support your everyday look and what will make you feel special each time you put it on.

Lifestyle

Personal lifestyle greatly determines whether to choose the ring or the watch. If one is an active person with a career that a ring might prove to be inconvenient with, then go for a watch. If one loves jewelry and is looking for the conventional commitment symbolism, then a ring would do.

Customization creates a one-of-a-kind piece for the couple. Many jewelers and watchmakers even offer design-on-your-own services that will offer you the option of creating your own ring or watch, from the specific gemstones to engraving to the types of metals for the band or chain.

Budget is always a good consideration. Engagement rings and watches are available in a plethora of options with respect to price, so one should keep in mind getting something that fits right into their financial well-being. After all, it's the thought that counts, not the price tag.

Popular Choices of Engagement Watches

Classic Watches

Brands like Rolex, Omega, and Cartier design classic, elegant and very tough luxury. These are considered more as an investment piece and can be treasured for a lifetime.

Contemporary

In the league of brands are Tag Heuer, Breitling, and Tudor, which provide contemporary designs and are ultra-stylish and speak more of a statement!

Smart watch

Even smartwatches from companies such as Apple, Samsung, etc., get rave acceptance in today's tech-savvy world. They also have the added functionality of acting as fitness trackers and notification centers, among many more.

Material poplar for Engagement Rings

A stunning Tiffany & Co.  engagement ring! Image courtesy of Tiffany & Co.  

Traditional Diamonds

Popular choice for engagement rings is still diamonds, and one can see why! Popular brands like Tiffany & Co., De Beers, Harry Winston, etc., present you with beautiful diamond rings that have won many hearts over quite a few generations.

Alternative Gemstones

How can you go wrong with this breathtaking tanzanite stone ring!? Image courtesy of Eden Garden Jewelry. 

Many couples are forgoing traditional diamonds in favor of alternative, more unique gems like sapphires, emeralds, and rubies, which offer a variety of vibrant colors and unique symbolism; companies like Brilliant Earth and Gemvara offer these types of engagement rings. Diamonds are beautiful, but so are other stones! 

Custom Designs

Custom-designed rings are also becoming so common. This gets what both of you treasure in your dream ring. This is possible with stylish jewelers like James Allen and Blue Nile.

At the end of the day, it is your choice—preference or what feels right to you as a couple: an engagement ring or an engagement watch. Go with timeless elegance with the traditional rings, go modern and practical with time-check watches, or just combine the two. But, above all, it should symbolize true love and commitment.

The ability to choose how one would like to symbolize one's engagement for same-sex couples is a powerful statement of equality and individuality. It is celebrating love in ways authentic to your relationship and uniquely committing to it.

So whether you shop for an engagement ring, a wedding ring, or both, remember the symbols are just that, symbols: the true nature of your engagement lies in the love you give each other and the path you walk together as a couple. Here's to finding that perfect way to say “I love you” and “I'm committed to you” in your most beautiful and unique way!

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